The sexual assault case of baby Judy viciously sodomised and raped allegedly by her aunt’s boyfriend in Ebolowa has been ongoing and coordinated by Barrister Abanga Marie Angele who is also the founder of the Association Hope for the Abused and Battered. She is coordinating both the psycho-social and legal aspects in the despicable case on behalf of the Network of Hope and Empowerment Cameroon (NHEC) founded by Ms Mirabelle Sonkey, and her organisation (H4AB).
The baby still has 2 surgeries to undergo with one planned for Thursday the 27th of February and the other a month or two after that one.
We remain committed to seeking for justice for Judy, and all victims of rape in society. Today we are more than ever determined to seek all avenues to accelerate and intensify awareness and sensitization campaigns about such atrocities and the need for a paradigm shift in our collective consciousness.
These past months have been trying for our society with reports of sexual violence committed on women, girls and babies as young as 6 months, and a serial rape of at least 18 primary 6 pupils in a school in Bonaberi Douala.
Sadly, more cases of sexual violence/rape go unreported as some families and communities practice a culture of silence or indifference about sexual violence/rape leaving the victims traumatized.
We appreciate all support received since the start of this case in this first days of May 2019.
Kindly do not hesitate to contact me for further information on how you support the cause by raising awareness too.
Tel/Whatsapp; Momo to 672576011 name of account Hope for the Abused and Battered.
This is a teacher in a primary school who allegedly raped 18 girls in class six. We are very saddened by media reports that he may have disappeared and the case which was opened earlier this year (although events were brought to the attention of the school authorities before the Christmas break 2019), may remain unresolved. Cases like these leave so many questions unanswered and we begin to have serious doubts about the justice system in our country. Are our daughters or kids for that matter safe in schools again? Click on the link to read more #joinusmakeadifference #itsallabouthope #notorape #notochildabuse #Togetheragainstrape
Our founder creates the Hopeless 2 Hopeful WhatsApp group. Do you feel this is just what you needed? Are you in Cameroon and can afford that one time fee of 2k? If yes to both questions, this is for you. Follow the instructions on the flyer, register through SMS or Whatsapp to our number, and once confirmed pay your registration fee of 2000frs Cfa.
Mental health problems and addiction, what’s the relationship and what can we do? Our founder dwells on that in the above video, and she as usual uses her personal experiences to keep it real. Watch, like, share, subscribe and support us, because there is hope.
Our founder Barrister Marie Abanga today (06.02.2020) unveiled 3 new projects of the association.
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Watch this less than 4 minutes video to find out the different heart and sustainability projects, and how you can get involved right here
Our founder gives us an update of the AAF project for IDPs which is partially funded by the ARDF program of the US embassy in Cameroon. She makes a passionate plea towards the successful implementation of this Project.
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Phase 2 of project AAF(Awareness, Advocacy and Facilitation on mental health matters and birth certificates for children) for IDPs (Internally displaced persons) dey start small time with identification of our target beneficiaries o – who want join we as partner or goodwill donor o, we go only dey glad
“Dear mum, It’s with a heavy heart that I write you this note, knowing the amount of pain it is going to cause you.
Mum, I want you to know that I love you dearly and will ever love you. If I am given the opportunity to live again I will still choose you as my mum and our family will still be my place of birth.
But unfortunately, I know that there is not going to be any such opportunity.
Mum, I didn’t want to do this, but I was compelled by circumstances beyond my control to take the plunge.
I tried my best to pull through, but my best was not good enough. I battled alone for about thirteen months now until my strength failed me.
You and dad could not decipher what I was going through and maybe I should not blame you for that.
My one and only brother came very close to understanding what I was passing through but it was too much for his young mind to comprehend.
Mum, I know that you and dad loved me and did everything you could to prove that to me but I was not feeling loved.
You provided for me more than I even wanted, took me to places that most of my mates have not even heard of, yet despite all these my heart was longing for love. I needed someone who would love me for who I was. I needed someone who could reach to the depth of my soul and feel the vacuum there.
The material provisions you spoiled me with could not do that. And I was alone all the while, despite the fact that we laughed together and had gist as a family. Then came the last straw that broke the camel’s back.
Your brother, Uncle Tony who came to live with us, made me to believe that he knew exactly what my soul was longing for – companionship. He chose to stay with me when you and dad were too busy to notice my loneliness.
He tried to keep me company when I needed someone to talk to but had only gadgets and teddy bears as my company. I was fooled to trust him and he hacked into my foolishness. And he did it perfectly and deeply.
Mum, your brother raped me and used me as sex toy for three whole years. I expected you or dad to notice but none of you did. When he left our house last year I was shattered because I have grown to fill the void of your presence with his dirty deeds. I couldn’t complain because I was afraid to lose him, but when he eventually left for Canada the magnitude of the emptiness in me became too heavy for me to carry. I struggled to forget those experiences but I could not. My grades dropped in school and you and dad quickly arranged for a home lesson teacher.
Mum, that singular act instead of helping me fueled what is about to happen to me a few minutes from now.
The home lesson teacher you brought so much reminded me of Uncle Tony and, on several occasions, I felt like grabbing him and making him to fill the gap that Tony’s absence created in me. Mum, I had to do this because I was lonely. Did you ever imagine what I was doing in my room all the time I stayed there alone? Couldn’t you for once have gone out of your way to just spend some time with me so that we could talk?
There are many things I would have liked to tell you but I don’t want to add to your pain so let those other torments be buried with this undignified body of mine.
Please make sure that my brother David doesn’t get to the point where I am now.
Also, tell your friends and colleagues who have children to find out what is happening with their beloved kids before it gets too late.
Many of the things parents do in the name of showing love are not what we the younger ones need. I would have gone, long hours before you will get to read this note.
But one cheering thing is that David is still there with you. Transfer the love you had for me to him.
My bank details and the passwords to my phones and laptops are all in the piece of paper I dropped in the drawer of your dressing table.
I miss you and it pains to empty the content of this bottle in my hand into my mouth but I am constrained to do it all the same. Tell dad and David that I love them. Tell our pastor that I will miss his sermons and long prayers. Tell my friends not to envy me.
That was the suicide note a 15-year old girl dropped for her mother before taking her life.
You may save someone’s life if you pass this story to all contacts in your phone.
1. Parents, do you find yourself to be “too” busy and tired to be in the present moment with your children? Are you more invested in your job and house duties than spending time with your kids?
2. Let your child know they are loved for who they are, and that you are always there to support them.
3. For the past few weeks, the social media has been awashed with many suicide stories on the pages of the media. Many more may still come.
4. Be a supportive parent and actively listen without judgment and seeking to understand their concerns and challenges. Being a supportive parent means having your child’s best interests at heart but also being present, involved and helpful.
5. Treat your child fairly and develop a trusting relationship.
6. Always acknowledge your child’s achievements and supporting them through mistakes and challenges.
7. Parents, let’s ALWAYS be there for our children in the way that we would have wanted our parents to be there for us.
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